RESOURCES
Various Resources, Books, Podcasts, and Healing concepts. Terms of use are Noted via the authors and are not publications of The Tree of Life.
VARIOUS TOPICAL RESOURCES
healing growth change
Personal Growth (Self/Others)
The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Timothy Keller
Cry of the Soul: How our emotions reveal our deepest questions about God—by Dan Allender
How People Change –by Timothy S. Lane; Paul David Tripp
Recovery
The Healing Path—by Dan Allender
Addiction and Grace—by Gerald G. May, M.D.
Self Harm
Sacred Pain: hurting the body for the sake of the soul—by Ariel Glucklich
Female Perversions: the temptations of Emma Bovary—by Louise J. Kaplan
Sexual Abuse
The Wounded Heart: hope for adult victims of childhood sexual abuse—by Dan Allender
https://theallendercenter.org/2018/09/sexual-brokenness-healing-1/
Sexual Addiction
Female Perversions-- Louise J. Kaplan
False Intimacy: Understanding the struggle of sexual addiction—by Harry W. Schaumburg
Borderline Personality Disorder
Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking your life back when someone you care about has borderline personality disorder—by Paul T. Mason & Randi Kreger
Marriage & Relationships
Bold Love—by Dan Allender
Intimate Allies: rediscovering God's design for marriage and becoming soul mates for life—by Dan Allender
For Men
Wild at Heart: discovering the secret of a man's soul—by John Eldredge
Tough or toxic Relationships:
Difficult Conversations: How to discuss what matters most—by Douglass Stone
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself -by Melody Beattie
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents- by Lindsay C. Gibson
The Emotionally Destructive Relationship: Seeing It, Stopping It, Surviving It - by Leslie Vernick
Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier- by Henry Cloud + Changes That Heal Workbook:
Toughest People to Love: How to Understand, Lead, and Love the Difficult People in Your Life -- by Chuck DeGroat
When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your Community From Emotional and Spiritual Abuse- by Chuck DeGroat
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EIYGYmDPOYo (29 Forgiveness: What It Is)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ac0fZPdCp_4 (28 Forgiveness: What It's Not)
Controlling People: How to recognize, understand, and deal with people who try to control you—by Patricia Evans
Trauma Work:
The Body Keeps the Score | Bessel van der Kolk
The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves |Curt Thompson
EMDR/TRAUMA:
https://www.emdria.org/news-and-announcements/new-what-is-emdr-therapy-video/
couples counseling 101
helpful Apps
